A man can learn much about what women want by watching the tactics of online Lotharios. One particular Casanova caught my attention, not for his flattering tactics, but for the overwhelming response, he was getting. This man has created a simple formula. He seeks out women, who are a little older than 30, but who are smart, independent and who take very good care of themselves.
Why this particular group of women, you might ask? Well, they are at high risk for feeling as if they have lost some of their sexuality. Most are either married, have kids, and or are very successful at business. Just past their careless youth, they have started to see themselves as less attractive than they once were. This makes them very vulnerable to someone who notices that they are still a beautiful woman.
While others in their life might occasionally notice that, they "look good for their age." Not many are validating that thought to these lovely ladies. Over time, a once strong sense of confidence can take a huge hit. Then someone comes along who is intriguing, interesting, and attractive. This man notices her charms and finds subtle ways to make her feel beautiful and desirable, two very powerful emotions. To someone who has not felt those emotions for quite some time, it can be intoxicating.
Thus, enter online Romeo. He spots his lovely target and starts his grooming process. You may think, "Why do I care what some online guy does to get women fawning after him?" Why, because it WORKS; and by using his simple tactics you can make yourself irresistible to the woman or women in your own life!
10 Steps That Will Make You Irresistible to Women:
- Notice and compliment her appearance. Be charming, not slimy.
- Be a little ornery and flirt in very subtle and non-threatening ways.
- Pay attention to what she says, likes, and does. Ask her about it.
- Engage her in conversations that matters to her. Get her talking about herself.
- Pay attention to her. Text, Facebook, or email her sweet pick me ups.
- Don't forget important dates, events or occasions. Act appropriately.
- LISTEN to her stories, pay attention, and take notes for future talks.
- Answer her inquiries. If she texts, emails, Facebook's or calls, respond quickly.
- Build her confidence, flatter her, make her feel sexy and attractive.
- Be charming, romantic, and sexy with your interactions.
At this point you may think, "This is a lot of work, and it is all about her. What about me?" Again, why would you want to do all that? It is simple, because when women feel sexy and attractive, they will ACT in sexy ways (dress sexy, talk sexy and act sexy). She will think about you all of the time, think about sex and think of ways to please you. She will be completely caught up in YOU.
Your behavior sets the hook; from there she will treat you just as you had always hoped a woman would. If you have trouble finding and keeping women in a relationship with you, what have you got to lose? Treat a woman like your mom, and she will treat you like a son. Treat a woman like a Queen and she will treat you like a King. The tone you set in your interactions will create the way your woman feels about you and how she sees you (Prince Charming vs. The Old Ball and Chain). After all, if you want to talk about yourself, I'm sure you can find some of your guy friends that will listen.
In summary, when you spend time with a woman, talking about her, and flattering her (making her happy), she will want to spend her time making you happy (you can fill in this blank!). Remember if you choose not to treat your lady like a queen, there are now many men out there who have figured this system out, and would love to take her off of your hands! Forget about the "What's in it for me" mentality. Get your own "Romeo" on, because small shifts in your behavior will create big shifts in hers. You can do this!
Lisa Schilling RN, BSN, CPT
Speaker, Writer, Wellness Coach & Consultant
Speaker, Writer, Wellness Coach & Consultant
Lisa Schilling is the author of "The Get REAL Guide to Health and Fitness-FIVE STEPS to Create Your Own Personal Wellness Plan." She juggles life as a doting wife and the mother of three boys, who keep her feet firmly planted on the ground!
Lisa is a Registered Nurse, author and recovering pageant queen, who spreads hope with her Get REAL approach to wellness. She empowers women, caregivers and groups to unleash their fullest potential by helping them to see their true beauty and discover their REAL value.
As an outspoken advocate for wellness and prevention, her motto is: "See one, do one, teach one!" Visit Lisa's website http://www.getrealwellnesssolutions.com to claim your FREE Bonus Gifts!
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